Tips for writing
What is the best strategy for getting the best result.
- There is no definite answer. The result depends not as much on the quantity of letters you have written as much on the efforts you put in it.
- The trick is not only to get responses, but to get enough responses to give you plenty of choices.
- Getting a 30-40% response is normal. If you are young and good-looking, you will get more responses than if you are old and ugly, it is just
natural. Of course your appearance is of no small importance thing. But you have to know that women will not judge you just by your photo. You
can make her interested in your person by special letter.
- Some men do get a 100% response; again, it depends highly on you.
- The first letter is the most important. It must be interesting to read. There is no second chance to make the first impression. The first letter
should be composed in simple language(try to avoid idioms,phraseology),should not be not too short and not too formal.Good humor is the best way
to make reading fun but don’t be a clown. Never make jokes about the girl’s appearance, her English, etc. Better to laugh at yourself than to laugh
at her. The letter should provide enough information for the lady to the conclusion you are the man she needs. Introducing yourself don’t forget
mention such details: your residence,age,height,weight,education,religion, children,interests. Mention some special personal qualities,what points
you out among others. The most important thing is what you are waiting from relationships.As Russian women are looking for a marriage partner they
need assurance that you are ready for serious relationships, that your aim is to set up house (not just to be pen friends). Tell her about a woman
of your dream. It could introduce you better than many other words. Also you can explain why do you decided to write her,why you like her.Make her
some simple and yet pleasant compliments.It could be similar to this: “You make the impression of a very smart (sincere, kind, understanding? pick
yours!) person. I feel you are the one I had been looking for.”
- Try to be positive in your letter.Never write about your personal problems in first letter,about unseccessful experience in relationships,problems
with health. No any sexual questions. Before asking her questions read her profile carefully. Sometimes women provide some detail there. Include
questions she would want to answer. You can offer her to discuss some topics you are interested in to know her better.For example: “Tell me about
your family. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Do you live with your parents or separately from them?” “Tell me about your job. Do you like it
or are you making plans for finding another one?” “How do you spend your days off? Do you camping and nature? Do you have a dacha? (Note: In Russia,
“dacha” is means a small garden cottage with some land located beyond the city limits.)” “When is your birthday? Do you like horoscopes? Do you
believe in compatibility by the horoscope?” Tell me something about your city. “What do you think the ideal family looks like? What did you think
of your future family when you were a child?” Questions and some notices,promises,”announcements”(like “I will tell you more in my next letter”)
give her the feeling that you are interested in corresponding with her. Closing the letter ask her for a response (for ex:”I’m looking forward to
your response.I hope we become friends.”) These words express your serious intentions regarding your communication.
- As you have a large profile in our agency, there is no need to repeat in each letter your info: age, country, profession. You can just show in the
first letter your interest to the girl and explain why you decided to write to her.
- You will have high level of response at our agency. First, we have in our agency only very active girls, girls who are really serious to find their
second half abroad. Secondly, we try to have responses from all the girls, so we do not only resend to the girls your letters, we phone to them and
tell them aobut you and your letter, The girl can even dictate her reply by phone if she can’t come to the agency and write you the answer this
week. As many girls do not have computers and Internet at home, we give them the possibility to use computer and Internet in the office for free
to write you answers. Of course, the answer can be positive or negative, as well as you girls also have choice. But you will know for sure, that
the girl is real and existing.