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Why Russian men do not want to marry A cynical man’s approach to the most vivid women’s problem Here you can find explanations for the most popular Russian men’s position in the issue of marriage. A men’s look at this problem has more sense, as long as most articles and guide-books on how to get married written by women contain absolutely fruitless recommendations. If you want to learn common language with men, you need to know the thread of men’s thoughts and understand their logic. Otherwise, you will have to make them think the way women do. There is even a possibility that you succeed, but the men will be men no more…
Your relations may seem to be on the climb. You might have mutual consideration, sex and interests in common… But will that inspire him to make
an “honest woman” of you? His answer is “no”! – But why? – But what for? Sex?
Sex is a natural need of any male organism. Demand for sex culminates by the age of 14 and keeps up approximately till the age of 20. This is a complex
situation. You have a lot of desires but lack of experience leaves you no chance to fulfill them. You keep thinking of it all the time. Your only
opportunity to make love after one or two successful dates once a week cannot match the desire to have it everyday and many times a day. Marriage
provides you with opportunity to have it regularly. Why don’t you get married then? Ok, and the young man heads for the church. Harmony of interests and goals?
Harmony of interests and goals is a nice background for mutual understanding. But this is not the case for marriage. You can spend long hours talking
about life, listening to favorite music, watching the same movies and TV shows, but yet there is no reason to make a family. You can have this lovely
time with your friend, lover or a girlfriend as well. Everyday life?
Any man wants to eat, wear tidy clothes and live in a relatively clean house. One would consider it enough to go to church, if the woman is able and
willing to look after his house. However, that is not so. At least for the majority of men. A woman who cooks well is a good cook but not a wife, as
well as a woman who cleans the house well can be a good housemaid, but not a wife either. Social status?
If a woman in Russia gets married, they call it “she got him caught”. She is a winner. A married man in Russia is a looser who let himself go trapped.
Being married is prestigious for a woman, but nothing of the kind for a man. Bachelor is a free person, while a single woman is either unwanted or
abandoned by her man. Women search for “free” men and avoid those who are married. At the same time, the fact that the woman is married would not
prevent a man from courting her, or rather even attract him. Of course, a model appearance beauty by one’s side can essentially improve one’s social
status, the way expensive cars do. However, models are rare stuff and not everyone can get them. But what should be done for average attractive women?
They have almost no chance. Russian regrettable statistics suggests that there are five women willing to get married in Russia for each man who does
not object taking a wife. Children?
Maternal drive is one of the main instincts of a woman. A female is eager to bear a child, to feed and educate him or her. For this purpose there must
be a man who would support the woman in this undertaking. Desire to become mother possibly is the most powerful stimulus to get married. Quite the
opposite, male instincts are dictated by other biological reasons. A male organism is intended to plant his seeds in the largest possible female space.
By no means would I deny men’s attachment to their children, which can sometimes be stronger than any female feelings, but nevertheless fatherly love
appears at the stage a bit later, when the child becomes a human rather than a little speechless creature. For this reason, a woman who tries to tie
the man up with their common child gets negative result: first he stays late at work, then he gets into a love affair or starts drinking. Love? Only love! Every woman can bring joy to your life. Some when they enter, others when they leave. You feel comfortable with some of them but all the more so comfortable without, whereas there also those that don’t make you comfortable, but you just can’t do without them. Men prefer to go out, have sex and keep company with the first type. But the women they marry are those they can’t do without. For them they will endure innumerable inconveniences and even sacrifice their freedom. Maybe, this is the case we should call love, which should not be confused with sudden rave or sexual desire. This is the most vivid, if not the only reason that really induces men to marry. If there is no love, nothing remains for you but to read female guide-books on how to get married using any kind of manipulations. |
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