The Best is The Enemy of The Good

Searching through the galleries of the dating sites, men’s eyes soon grow tired of thousands of interesting beautiful girls. How can one precisely choose his “one and only”? It is possible to rely upon one’s own tastes and intuition, upon the results of psychological tests and recommendations of the Personal Advisor, but still the choise will be quite hard. For this reason, a lot of men and especially those of them who are extremely particular in their preferences can hang in doubt for many years.

As soon as the man starts regular correspondence with women and even arranges the meeting with the one he likes, his eyes catch a photo of some other girl who seems even more attractive. Thus, everything starts with a clean slate. As a rule, suchlike men remain single spending all their time on endless search.

There are many times more women than men at the dating sites and therefore men may think that there is an infinite possibility for their choice. In fact, attractive girls face no shortage in admirers even at the dating sites. These girls would not agree to waste their time on groundless expectations. That is why lingering with a meeting would not play into the hands of suchlike men.

The compatibility analysis of the girl’s psychological test results compared to yours has a great significance if you want to gain harmony in your subsequent relationships, but even ideal compatibility is only the half of success. It is we who creates the other half after getting in touch in reality.

In a conclusion, I will quote a joke, which, I suppose, clearly reflects the situation.

Two already elderly men are talking:
Jack: Why are you still not married?
Bob: My entire life I was searching for the ideal woman.
Jack: So you still have not found her?
Bob: I did find her, but it turned out that she was searching for the ideal man.